While spending some vacation time together, my wise 7-year-old granddaughter and I waxed philosophically as we walked oceanic trails overlooking whales and dolphins.
Earlier, her grandfather noted that we might get caught in a rainstorm if we strolled for too long. “Oh, what a pessimist,” I teased him. “If it showers, then we’ll get to see rainbows.”
“What’s a pessimist?” Sophie asked me.
“Someone who sees rain instead of rainbows,” I explained. “In a pessimist’s world, something will go wrong. In an optimist’s world, things will go right.”
Her brow creased in confusion, but then we got distracted by the monk seal that blubbered up onto the beach, ready for a long day’s sleep. We listened to the volunteer speak while he set up ropes to keep away the curious.
“It’s breeding season. These seals are extremely busy in the ocean. They come out to the beach to rest up, and they can sleep here for hours, or days, before returning to the important business of procreating.”
Oh no. Sure enough, Sophie asked the man, “What’s procreating?”
“Making babies,” the gray-haired volunteer responded curtly. Then he peered at me as if saying, “it’s all yours, lady.”
Fortunately, a sea turtle provided a diversion, and our walk continued for two miles as we traversed lava rock and conversations about cranky little brothers and ballet lessons and how the Bird-of-Paradise got its name.
We sank onto a wooden bench, rocking back and forth as we stared at the waves move in and out, in and out.
“In a week, we’ll be battling snow, ice, and rain back home,” I grumbled. “Just close your eyes then, and remember this spot.”
“You don’t sound much like an optometrist,” Sophie declared to me.
“What?” I asked, wondering what eyeglasses and vision had to do with New England weather.
The poor girl blushed and closed her mouth tightly, as if she’d said something wrong.
“An optometrist?” I repeated. “What do you mean?”
“You know, you don’t sound like you believe in rainbows.”
Oh. Damn. She was absolutely right. “An OPTIMIST!” I burst out laughing. “Sophie, you are so right. I am an optimist, and I just sounded like the opposite. Here’s to you, my wise one.”
She grinned and hugged me, and I’ll tell you, my vision suddenly became much clearer.
How about you? Do you have an “optometrist’s” vision?
Thanks to Google Images for whale photo. The others are mine..
Right now vision a little blurred … moist eyes…the beauty…the innocence of your words.
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When our kids were young and ‘wise beyond their years,’ how many times did we say, “I need to write this down’? Now I have chance with my little grandkids. 😉
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Out of the mouths of babes…what a sweetheart your granddaughter is, Pam. Without and “optometrist’ vision, the world is a dark place.
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So right, Jill. Need to sharpen our vision to the sunny side!
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Gorgeous post! We can learn so much from children if we only listen to their wisdom. Her thirst for knowledge is wonderful. I wish for her that she keep it throughout her life. 🙂
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That’s my wish too, Norah. How do we keep innocent wisdom and love of learning strong in our children as they grow? I’m hoping by listening to them, we encourage them to speak up and BE.
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Listening is so important, listening and allowing them to express themselves, and to question. Your post displayed it beautifully. 🙂
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Much thanks, and thanks also for putting this post in Twitter’s Sunday Reblog. I’d didn’t know about it – good ‘stuff’ in there!
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You’re welcome. I enjoy sharing posts that speak to me, as yours did. 🙂
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Out of the mouth of babes!!!
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Exactly. ❤
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What a wonderfully sweet post. Had me smiling all the way through. Such memories the two of you made that day, and now you’ll have your own inside optometrist joke for years to come. 🙂
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I think I’ll save my little stories about me and Sophie (I have blogged several of them, like “Eating the Broccoli”) and when she’s 20 or so, make her a little book. Something to look forward to in 13 years or so. Yikes – scary/fun to think of how many conversations we may have down the line.
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Sounds like a wonderful idea!
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I love how the little ones see things! Sounds like a perfect day. XO
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May my granddaughter always want to walk by my side and philosophize throughout her life!! Thanks, Darlene. xo
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She will! ❤
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Ah. Out of the mouths of babes. 😀
If you must know, I am an optome..optom…optimist.
You holiday sounds heavenly. Wonderful memories in the making. ❤ ❤ ❤
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I would definitely guess you have good clear sunny vision, Tess. Here’s to both of us staying optimistic – eternally. xo
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Eternally. 😀 😀
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This post was wonderful. Love that last line.
I am neither an optimist or an optometrist, but I don’t think I’m a pessimist either (at least I hope I’m not). I would describe myself as pragmatic (or a Prague attic.)
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Oh you. You are a hidden-opti. A true optimist who hides it in your Prague-attic.
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Little ones give the best eye exams, don’t they Pamela? The advice and questions just sound better coming from them.
Good for you and yours for the winter sunshine get together.
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Yes, a ‘get out of Boston snow/sleet/’ week or two helps the vision turn much sunnier, Bruce! I stopped by the Bay area on the way here and caught some rays and some rain. All my friends were outside with their mouths open drinking in the wet stuff. Hope you get some more.
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What a precious granddaughter and a great day. Keep the sunshine and the love in your heart. Another lovely post, thanks Pam.
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Of course, if I lived in your gorgeous area (can you hear the green in my words? totally jealous), I wouldn’t need to fly to find sun. But… we need to keep that vision sunny no matter rain or shine. For me, granddaughter-love definitely helps. ❤
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LOL! That’s a cute story.
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A cute story with a ‘vision.’ 😉
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They’re tough creatures, aren’t they? And more often than not, they’re right. We should listen to their uncluttered mind more and stop transferring our ‘expereince’ aka ‘everything that can go wrong’ to them.
Easier said than done – just ask my grown up kids. 🙂
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Good way of putting it. We ‘mature’ people need to let go of the memories of ‘what went wrong’ and see a child’s view of ‘what can go right.’ Much healthier!
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Sounds like good company you keep there. It’s good to have someone around reminding you of important stuff. 🙂 Building memories . . .
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Thanks, Mary. Good company, indeed. So many lessons to learn from those with younger vision!
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Reblogged this on By the Mighty Mumford and commented:
‘FRAID NOT…EXCEPT BY FAITH…I’S A DOUR SCOTSMAN AND WHATEVER WELSHMEN ARE KNOWN FOR!!!
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You don’t seem dour at all! 🙂 Thanks much for the re-blog.
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Catch me when I’m not writing poetry or blogging. On second thought—don.t! 🙂
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I understand. Writing brings out the best in us. 🙂
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Yup!
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Lol…never teach a child a lesson you don’t want brought back to you in spades..:)
Great photo..:)
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So right, by George! “Teach….your children well…” some musicians once sang. Karma – what so you teach, shall come back to you. 🙂
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Let’s hear it for clear vision…physical and spiritual!
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Hip Hip Hooray! 🙂
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Lovely photos! I love the correlation between optometrist and optimist!
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Me too! I didn’t even ‘get’ that correlation until my last line. Ahhh, how nice when writing steers us into awareness. Thanks for stopping by!
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I’m sure she’ll keep her optometrist vision of life following all your lessons Grandma.
xxx Gigantic Hugs xxx
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That is certainly my hope, David. Monkey See. Monkey Do…. 🙂
xoxoxowarmsunnyhugxoxoxox
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How adorable! 🙂
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Thank you!!! xo
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Hi Pam, I tossed you a bouquet on my blog this week. Usually that gives you a pingback but I’m not seeing one here. Perhaps you are self hosted? In any case, I love your blog. 😊
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I caught the bouquet. It is BEAUTIFUL!!! Thank you so much for the lovely flowery words about my blog. You’ve made my day. Sending you a big hug. Can you feel it? xo
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So happy to have made your day, Pam. Thank you for the big hug! Blog on. 😀
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Sounds like a great walk, both physically and philosophically, you’ll never be able to be a pessimist from now on, at least while your granddaughter is there to remind you 🙂
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Sophie has such a sunny disposition that she keeps me smiling no matter how gray the day. Yes, she’s given me some great ‘inSIGHT’ already. xo
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This is so sweet. What a lovely walk on the beach that I’m sure both of you will always remember. 🙂
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Thanks Carol. I know I’ll always remember this oceanic walk, and I’ll be sure to share these stories with Sophie when she’s older, too. 🙂
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Pam, this was a wonderful and “filled to the brim” post. I loved the rapport between you and Sophie. Your photograph of the 2 of you is so happy and an “optometrist” viewpoint is openly displayed. She definitely looks like you! 🙂
The seal resting up to procreate, swinging bench with glistening water, and bird of paradise flower were all so nice to see. The rainbow was a lovely photograph. ♡ I think 8 have a mostly “optometrist” outlook on Life. 🙂
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I’m glad to hear you’re a fellow optometrist, but I’m not surprised at all! xo
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Thanks, Pam! 😀
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Sophie is a gem! Dr Evans prescribes an outing at least once a week with her….
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Well, along with your new golden. Every day would be golden, then. xo
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What a lovely story. So… what do you call someone who dances in the rain and looks for rainbows and loves the feel of rain, or sunshine? Hmmmm… I think your grand-daughter had the right word! An optometrist is someone who always sees through eyes of wonder!
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I think we’ve come up with a new definition for optometrist, for sure. I don’t know about you, but I’m feeling very optometristical right now. 🙂
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What a fun memory to cherish. I love that your granddaughter is curious and unafraid to ask what a word means. I had to laugh at the volunteer’s discomfort. I wonder how many times people in his position have to dodge those kinds of questions!
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I find it interesting and hopeful that 7-year-old girls are learning that it’s okay to be curious and to ask questions. I was too shy at that age, so I’m really encouraging my granddaughter to keep on askin’!
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Optimism is all about how we see with our heart. Such a heart-warming story Pam, thank you!
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Thank YOU, Jennifer. And you’re so right, without an open heart, we can’t be optimistic. Here’s to great heart-full vision in our lives.
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Children do keep us on our toes, don’t they? And I love seeing the world through their eyes, especially with their misunderstandings of the language that turn out to be rather insightful!
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I even remember how I got words wrong when I was a child, and adults laughed at me, but then got thoughtful. Yes, we should all listen to kids more closely!
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Absolutely!
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Great story – kids always have the best perspectives!
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Kids are ‘closer to the ground’ than we are, literally and figuratively. I think we should listen more closely, for sure.
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Definitely- they can see things the way things are without all the nonsense that I mix into my perceptions!
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Love it Pam! I already follow your blog but I came here via Jennifer today. I do the believe the name Sophie means wisdom! She wears it well. ❤
Diana xo
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Ahh, Sophie is wise indeed. Her name fits her well. Great to have you drop by!
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What a lovely true story!
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