May I rest on my laurels a little here? It’s still summer . . . the season to be outside inhaling the ocean air, embracing every sunset, following the sunflowers, laughing with the hummingbirds, basking in the sun.
And, to sit on a laurel or two.
What is a laurel, you may wonder. Ah, well, in Ancient Greece victorious athletes were presented with laurel wreaths to wear on their heads. They were, and still are, signs of great accomplishment, unless you start resting on them.
Ahem. But I deserve a little laurel resting. I’m on a high because I was invited to speak in my New England neighborhood this week about my children’s book, Birds of Paradise. Even though it’s been published for over a year and it was named a finalist at the International Book Awards, and even though I greet my neighbors out and about almost every day, many of them had no idea I’m a writer. And a published author.
So one of my neighbors had an old-fashioned “soiree,” where 20 of us gathered at her house. I talked about my book, about writing, about fulfilling a dream, even if it was a 30-year old dream. I filled up my discourse using quotes from other authors, like Madeleine L’Engle, who explained:
I read my book to the group, gratified when I noticed a few tears drop at the end of the story, glowing at the praise. My head felt heavier with the invisible laurel wreath.
After the evening, I placed my laurels at my writing desk, and then, later the next day, received notice of a few more 5-star Amazon reviews on my novel The Right Wrong Man. The newest one was written by an author I admire, Jacqui Murray:
“In Pamela Wight’s The Right Wrong Man Meredith Powers is accustomed to spending her days helping authors turn out polished manuscripts. She’s good at it . . . . but not so much at running her love life. She falls for a man who disappears frequently for job-related work that takes him to dangerous parts of the world doing dangerous things. Finally, she can’t stand the idea that she might lose him, so she dumps him. To recover from his unpredictability, she moves in with a handsome and dependable accountant. Parker reappears, filled with warnings of her safety telling her not to trust anyone, telling her his cover was blown and he is now running for his life, and within days, she is kidnapped. The FBI agent who holds her captive tells her a different story about Parker, of a rogue agent who fell to the dark side and that the US government needs her help capturing him. It is at this point she realizes . .” (gotta read the rest of the book to find out what Meredith realizes…)
My laurels are blooming bright and green.
I’m going to rest on them a bit. But not too long, since the expression “to rest on your laurels” means to get lazy or complacent about what you could achieve next, because you’re too busy basking in the memories of former glory.
Ahhh, but basking is what summer is all about, isn’t it?
Bask on, you deserve it! 🙂 ❤
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Funny how we feel guilty about basking. But I was brave enough to talk about it here, so bask I shall. 🙂
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You are right, we all deserve basking moments at times! So Bask on! 🙂
Hey I am still basking as well, so I get it! 🙂
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Pamela, you can rest all you want in my book. Well, I do not have a book to my credit but if I did, I would be resting at least for a while. I have never been able to figure how to know when to write ( a while or awhile). Anyhow, I love all that you do and I enjoy reading about how you receive validation for your writings. Keep on keeping on.
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Clever, Yvonne. There may be a “book” in you yet! I’m hoping I have at least five or six more books in me …. if I get off these laurels and start writing again. 🙂
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No rest for the weary here, Pam. Congratulations on your success! That Jacqui, she writes the best reviews, doesn’t she? Enjoy your time off! xo
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My guess is that you haven’t rested on YOUR laurels, Jill, and you have plenty of reason to. I so enjoyed your last book. Sweet and well-written and WARM in all the right ways. xo
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This is all wonderful and I’m so pleased for you. Our laurels are what remind us to keep going so we can’t afford to rest on them for too long. But it is OK to bask in them!! I’ve been busy promoting my series this summer, working on Amanda in Malta and relaxing in the pool. I guess I’m doing a bit of everything. (I managed to sell some books at the pool, there are kids there with their parents/grandparents.) I love those soirees!
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I’ve decided that soirees are the BEST way to share and sell our books, Darlene. The attendees are so gracious and cordial and warm-hearted about our stories. I walked out of my neighbor’s get-together without touching the ground. Most readers don’t realize how we authors LOVE to hear how our characters have touched them.
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How absolutely lovely, a bit of ocean gazing seems well deserved and who knows what might come out of the waves!
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Ah, Victoria. You know me too well. If I gaze long enough into that ocean, a mermaid is sure to greet me with a siren song and at least a dozen stories to tell. 🙂
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How wonderful, Pam! I think you should not just rest on your laurels, but roll around in them and when you have had enough of that, stop and rest. Look up at the sky and watch cloud formations, letting your imagination run wild.
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What a perfectly lovely suggestion, Molly. I’m off to roll in the (wet) grass and gaze in the (thunderous) clouds, gathering pennies for my thoughts and then scribbling them down like gold. xo
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Hey, if you’ve got laurels? Rest on them! Somehow I doubt you will, but they sound well deserved all the same.
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Haha. I’ll admit, I don’t have any “laurel” laurels hanging around, but I think my wicker rocking chair on the porch could act like a bench of laurels, and I’ll rock enough to come up with my next story idea. 🙂
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Congratulations Pam. I am so pleased for you. You deserve it.
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❤ Thank you, Brigid. I feel quite guilty about the basking, but I'm trying to learn to glow a bit, before the writing work begins again. xo
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Congratulations! You deserve to rest on your laurels. You done good. I believe that we all need to take a rest now and then– perspective is what keeps us fresh.
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I like your perspective, Ally. Rest IS good, but darn we’re built to underestimate its benefits. Off to bring a good book under a shady laurel tree and …. bask.
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that’s a great accomplishment. i’d say you deserve to bask!
and that piece does make the story sound intriguing.
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I love the way Jacqui detailed and summarized my twisty & page-turning book. Not an easy thing to do, and she pulled it off.
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Congratulations, Pam! How wonderful for you. Bask and rest on those laurels while you enjoy the final weeks of summer.
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Did you sit on your …. laurels when your last book was published, Merril? With perhaps a great glass of wine and your guy? 🙂 xo
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Not really, Pam. I’m on to procrastinating with the next book. 😉
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🤔 Procrastination can be useful as we let our unleashed thoughts send us on our next writing journey. I can’t wait to hear what yours is going to be. ✍️
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I’m working on another reference book. This one’s on sexual harassment. I need to get moving on it.
And of course, there’s always poetry. 🙂
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EXCELLENT. Basking is done – work away my friend. (And you give us so much pleasure with your poetry every week.) ❤
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Thank you so much, Pam. ❤
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how wonderful, pam –
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XOXO
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Congratulations Pamela!
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A bouquet of thanks, Val. 💐
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You deserve to enjoy your laurels! Congrats!
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Welll, perhaps a short rest on a small bunch of laurels, Kate. 😆
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Lovely post, Pam, and congratulations. Not only on your newest, excellent reviews, but on discovering how rewarding it is to get out there and meet potential new readers face to face. I dearly love building a local readership, and I hope you’ll find more opportunities to do the same. NOTHING boosts your spirits more than that, unless it’s new 5-star reviews. BOTH is best of all! 😀 ❤
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I know you encourage other writers to get out there and share their stories with potential readers, Marcia. It’s a little difficult for us introverted ones, but wow the results are astronomical. You are so right; to see and hear how our readers react to our stories and our characters help propel us onto writing more stories. ✍️❤️
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Exactly, Pam! And it gets easier every time you do it, I swear. You begin to think of it as time spent with old friends and a chance to make new ones, and it’s all about enjoying them, while they enjoy you. I’ve been doing various types of talks for three or four years, so it’s easier for me, but believe me, my first one or two, I was scared to death. It was a case of “fake it ’til you make it.” I hope you’ll get more opportunities to meet your readers and to make new ones. Good luck! 🙂 ❤
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What a lovely post and filled with such good news! Congratulations. I didn’t realize you were writing a novel. You deserve to rest on your laurels and bask in your success!
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Readers are encouraging me to write another illustrated children’s book, Patricia. Hearing children and adults ask me to write a sequel to Birds of Paradise certainly gets my writing fingers flowing. And yes, I am about 30% into my next novel, which is a sequel to The Right Wrong Man. Never enough hours to the day. So I can’t rest on those laurels too long. 😬😊💗
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Now I’m not going to be able to rest until I read about what she realizes!
And that will have to wait until I’ve got my feet up beside the lake, basking in some autumn glow.
I’ll see you on the turning pages.
Congratulations. The laurels look good on you!
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Ahhh, the page turning The Right Wrong Man will be a perfect read for you at the lake with the colorful leaves surrounding you. 😍
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We need a few laurels to remind us to keep going with our writing (later). It’s a well-earned bonus after working so hard to produce a book. It’s gratifying to hear about it when the books are well received. I’ve certainly enjoyed yours, Pam, so go ahead and take a few minutes off. Enjoy the rest of the summer before warming up the keyboard for your next novel. Yes, take a few minutes. Take all day, or okay, take a week or so. I’m sure that even when you’re “resting on your laurels” the wheels are turning about things you can put into your next book. I don’t think a writer can ever shut it off, but maybe you can jot down some reminder notes for later and give yourself a rest.
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You’re right, Anneli. There is no REAL basking, because just relaxing on a chair watching the clouds go by, we writers find a story in those clouds, like a knight befriending a dragon (right now, above me) and the two deciding to ignore the princess and instead, play a round of gin rummy. 🙂
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I think we writers are all a bit sick (but we like who we are)! I’ve had people say, “You have quite an imagination,” and you’d think I would be flattered, but it’s often said with a questioning frown as I needed a ride to the psychiatrist’s office.
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I meant to say “as if I needed….”
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Laughing, but yes, I’ve experienced that too. Hey, CHEERS to our imaginations!!!
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YES!!
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Congratulations Pamela! I bet it’s a nice feeling to be acknowledged for your writing in such an intimate way with a local gathering. Bask, savor, enjoy and roll around in those laurels…. 🙂
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Since my talk, neighbors I never really knew are stopping me in the street, asking me what character I’m writing today, and when my next book is coming out. NICE, but ohhhh, the pressure. 🙂
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How fun Pam. I’m glad you’ve gotten to connect with your neighbors.
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‘Warriors deserve LAURELS’! – Rest, be invigorated, and WRITE! And, Congratulations, lovely lady! ♥
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And guess what, Billy Ray? I just got a few more laurel leaves – this time in the Fall issue of our Lycoming College Magazine. Look at page 44. Whoohoo! I hope you’ve written to the Alumni News so they’ve reported all of your published books!
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JUST GOT IT! HOORAY, WARRIOR #1! ♥♥♥ So very much delighted for you, dear Pam! Here, have a bucket full! ♥♥♥
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Enjoy sitting on your laurels Pamela…hugs x
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Many thanks for ALL of your support in so many ways, Sally. xo
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Your laurels sound grand!
Enjoy your rest . . . get refreshed
Bask in summer’s glow
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I shoulda put some sunscreen on while I was basking…. OOPS! 🙂
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You are doing what many writers (and other humans) are urged to do every once in a while: pause and acknowledge accomplishments. I admire you for that! Many just go on to the next thing and fail to savor the moment.
I like the many congratulatory comments, especially Molly’s. The only laurels I have to rest on are my academic accolades from a different life and a copy of The Laurel Wreath yearbook, which I consulted frequently writing my memoir.
So proud of you, Pam!
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Thanks for your wise words, Marian, interspersed with your wit, of course. The Laurel Wreath – what a great title for a yearbook. We all are looking forward to reading your memoir. At that point, I’ll send you over some of these laurels I’ve been resting on. 🙂 xo
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One good thing about a book is that it lasts. Some, by reason of their subject matter, date more quickly. Others, such as your romance thrillers, can be picked up and enjoyed for many years. I’ve got a friend presently reading my first book excitedly telling me the story as she goes. Just as well because I’ve forgotten it 🙂
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Now that’s funny, Roy. Yes, I think we authors should re-read our novels every year, not only so we can pat ourselves on the back (wow, I really wrote that?) but also so we know what our readers are talking about when they relay info to us about our books that they’re reading. 🙂
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Congratulations Pam, I can hear your delight, embedded in your words. 🙂
Laurels enliven life
Inspire us to bask in their bliss
Deluging Dreams
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You just gave me a great idea, Balroop. We authors and poets should grow a laurel bush or two around our homes, just to make sure we remember to pluck a leaf or two now and then, and enliven our life by resting on them now and then. xo
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Loved your book, Pam. It’s exactly what I like reading!
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And you relayed that so well in your review, Jacqui. So many people here are getting a wonderful summary of my book The Right Wrong Man (and gaining interest in it) because of your great review! xo
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Good for you—bask away–you deserve it and should enjoy basking in the fruits of your labour 🙂
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Fruits of my labor. Wellll, do M & M’s count as fruit? Because I love to reward myself with a different color M & M each time I’ve completed a new page or two of my next Work-in-Progress. 🙂 🙂
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These are all incredible accomplishments, Pam. I agree with your other readers – BASK ON! You deserve every second of it!
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The weather is cooperating by reducing the humidity and letting me bask a bit outside. But I am onto my next writing project soon! ☀️
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Congratulations on everything. Enjoy your laurels 🙂
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Thank you, Mary! 🌟
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How nice that your neighbor put together that soiree. You deserve all the praise that you are reading here… and more! Congrats on your accomplishments.
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Good neighbors are a blessing in so many ways! 💫 Thanks for the kudos. 🙏
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Kudos all around, Pamela! 🙂 xo
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You know what it feels like, Bette! 👏 😍
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How wonderful and you should bask. I don’t think if I wrote one hundred years, anyone would ask me to read at a neighborhood get together. I may be wrong of course but savor the moment.
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I think I should come over and knock on your neighbors’ doors, John. Shame on them! You would be a fascinating speaker!
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Ha ha ha . Thanks, Pamela.
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Congratulations, Pam. It’s always wonderful being recognized, whether by the “big reviewers” or the people who know us in everyday life. I say take a well-deserved little rest on your laurels. It is still simmer after all.
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or summer. 😀
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Actually, I think high fives and good reviews from ordinary readers are the best kind! Now, if only they knew how to review on Amazon … 😏
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That is wonderful! And now I have a new book to add to my “must-read” list!
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Can’t make any promises, but I think you will really enjoy it ! 🤗
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-grin- Congratulations and bask away!
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I was just thinking of you last night (in the best ways – as an author) as my guy and I watched the latest Spielberg movie Ready Player One. Your trilogy explored the world of virtual reality, and skipping from “real” life to a virtual one, in so many great ways. Have you thought of approaching Spielberg about making a movie from your three-set fantasy-adventure? (Not kidding….)
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-massive hugs- I think that’s possibly the nicest thing anyone has ever said about my writing! Seriously. The answer though…who me?
I really admire Spielberg’s work, but approaching him would be a bit like attempting to climb Mt Everest without pitons or a rope…
I am going to daydream about the idea though. 😀
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Instead of dreaming about the idea, I hope you are writing another book. Here I am as a reader just waiting… 🤩
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-massive hugs-
I’m trying to clear the [non-fiction] decks so I can indulge in Nano in November. Can’t tell you how much I /need/ to write fiction at the moment.
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That’s so great – congratulations! Enjoy those laurels!
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Feeling a bit guilty as I’m sitting here on those laurels. But on the other hand, it feels darn good. 🤭
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You should feel good and without guilt!
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Congratulations Pamela and ‘bask on’ my lovely. It’s special to meet your readers face to face and to have that energy create new (well deserved) reviews. I sense your basking as healing and hibernating new creative sparks. Soft hugs for you. Xx
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I highly recommend to any and all authors-if you have a chance to meet your readers-do it! You are so right Jane, it adds to the inspiration to keep on ✍️ writing.
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❤ for you Pam, always. xX
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Laurels—I’d rest on ’em, if I had ’em! They haven’t appeared lately, but as soon as they do, I’ll be right there, sitting on ’em, resting!
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Oh, you’re funny. I bet you have plenty of reason to sit on a few laurels or two. XO
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As others have said, bask and enjoy … you deserve it 🙂
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Thank you Joanne. 🙏💗
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Enjoy the laurels, Pam. What a lovely invite to share your book and love of writing. And a great review from Jacqui of a fantastic book! I love the L’Engle quote too – it’s perfect. 🙂
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Way before I became a writer, I was an admirer of Madeline L’Engle‘s books- particularly her journals on ordinary life. I feel like I learned so much from her before I even first started putting pen to paper. Thanks Diana. Hope you’ve taken time over the years of all your publications to sit on a laurel or two. 💙
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I try to sit on laurels, but I’m not quite ready to rest on them yet. Too much writing to do. 🙂
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Those are definitely laurels worth resting upon Pam, enjoy them to the full 🙂
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Hugs and thanks to you, Andrea. 💚
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Bask away, dear friend! Laurels for you and your book-children. May they continue to fly high in the sun!
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My books definitely are my children in interesting ways. And it’s so nice to see these book-children earn respect and kudos. 😍
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My grandmother used to say that to me all the time. No resting on your laurels. I wait until she wasn’t looking and rest some more…usually with my books. You sure do deserve a break in the summer. That is what summer is all about. Besides, I bet your still doing a bit of work, in between the grandkids fun…
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Oh dear, I can hear your grandmother’s voice in my head. But yes you are correct Cheryl, I haven’t rested much. 😬😆
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I wish I had read this last Friday! But sometimes I’m a little late to the party. I’m so very happy for you, and that 5-star review coming on the heels of such a great get-together must have sent you over the moon.
I think a little laurel-resting is certainly in order. And have a beer while you’re at it!
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Can you believe that one of my writer students brought me a beautiful bottle of champagne? I’m saving it for something really special. Thanks Amy-I usually make sure that I’m always late to a party. That’s when the good stuff starts. 😊
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Huge congrats Pam, well deserved. 🙂
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Thanks Debby! 😘
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You have every right to bask, Pam. Enjoy!
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Well, I do feel a bit funny about basking and relating why I’m basking. But it does feel darn good. 😏
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Bask in those good feelings to your heart’s desire. The opportunities don’t come often enough.
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That’s for sure! 🙂 xo
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You go take that power nap on your laurel. You earned it.
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Oh, I like that term-power nap. Somehow it doesn’t sound as decadent as taking a bit of time off to glow. 👍
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Oh, if you wanna make laziness sound like work you’ve come to the right guy.
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🙂 As always, thanks for the smile, my friend.
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No problemo.
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Congrats, Pam, and you are deserving, so enjoy the glory! Wonderful review by Jacqui, too! ❤🌼
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Thanks! Jacqui’s review was such a pleasant surprise! 😍
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I don’t have any laurels to rest on, Pamela, but I confess to doing my share of basking this summer. 🙂 🙂 It’s gone now, but it was wonderful while it lasted. Congratulations to you and thanks for finding time to visit mine. It sounds like a good plot.
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Basking is a summer MUST-DO! And there are not that many days left of it. Wahhhh! xo
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🙂 🙂
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Keep Basking.. that is what Summer Sun is all about.. And why not bask as you sit back on your laurels in your own achievements.. Wonderful that your book was named in the finalist of the International Book Awards.. How wonderful is that.. So sit back enjoy…… And wonderful that you got to speak and read your book that brought tears.. ❤
Much Love.. ❤
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Sue – thanks for reading about my basking and laurel-sitting. I feel red-faced about sharing it all, but really, if I don’t shout out my writing pleasures to my blogging friends, who else? 🙂
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Never feel bad for taking time out to just BE… ❤
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Our culture claims we must always DO, but I’m working on feeling just fine, just BEING. xo
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🙂 Keep BE-ing!
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Congratulations, your books are wonderful and so is this blog. Rest on your laurels for as long as you want.
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Just finished the 5th draft of my next children’s book. Cross fingers for me!
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many congrats, dear, & tx much for sharing good news ❤
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Thank YOU for stopping by and visiting me time to time. Love it when you do! I’m off to visit you again. 🙂
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Laurels galore for you, Pam and rightly so!! How typical that one’s neighbours have no idea of our writing – I love that you got to share your work at the soiree! A brilliant idea and it must have been wonderful to see their tears at the end of the reading – no doubt you soon had tears of your own to match theirs! Cogratulations on a great review … still one of the most memorable books I’ve read this year! Yep I’ve been resting a lot this summer … not on my laurels though. A couple of new projects which have been percolating away and slowly making inroads!
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I bet you had a wonderful rest, which rejuvenates us as we prepare for new projects for the Fall and on. Can’t wait to hear about your percolating ideas!
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I think those laurels sometimes need to be rested upon – how else would they know that they’re laurels?! 😁 Bask on , dear Pam, you’ve clearly deserved it! 😄❤
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The summer laurels are fading, so I’m hopping up ready to skip through the Fall. I hope! 🙂
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Basking indeed! It sounds like you had a wonderful summer. I feel blessed all the time that I have met such awesome people like you through my blog! I don’t think you will set on your laurels for long. There is too much creativity in you to do that! 😉
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