Ruth was a strange child. Her parents knew within weeks of her birth that she had neither David’s ginger hair nor Martha’s sassy smile. Instead, Ruth – named after David’s beloved great-grandmother, Ruby Ruth Ambrose – was taciturn and calm.
But all the same, Ruth was the favorite of her dad’s, even though parents aren’t supposed to feel more love for one child over another. Ruth’s older brother Robert was bright, cheerful, and even-tempered. A joy to have around the house.
But Ruth. David felt such a connection to his wide-eyed quiet daughter that he wondered if she had a spark of his great-grandma within her. (A New Realm)
So he was less surprised than his wife when, at 20, Ruth declared, “I’m leaving for a journey.”
“You have six more months of college, then you find a job, like the rest of ….everyone else,” Martha declared, not even asking where the “journey” would lead her daughter.
Ruth only gazed at her mother with affection. Martha and Ruth had as much in common as a chimpanzee and a chipmunk. Martha didn’t understand Ruth’s propensity to be alone, to think. To dream. Even at the age of 8, then 13, and 20, Ruth only smiled at her mother, explaining:
“I can’t be other than what I am.”
Ruth never told her parents of her dreams of hilly lands full of deep caves and a woman who visited her, sighing two names “Ruby. Trudy.” Were these the ancestors she never met? The connection within the dream was strong and enticing. She began to sleep longer hours as she flew through a dreamscape full of colors and laughter and a woman’s face, blurry and yet familiar.
College studies couldn’t compete with the joy of these dream visitations. Ruth would rather sleep than study.
Until one early spring night, when Ruth awoke with a start, heart hammering from the admonition delivered by another dream voice, this one stern and strong.
“You are here and for a purpose;
Not a ghost and no longer dust.
Give up the past; become what IS.
Search and find, like a life’s quiz,
But live for the moment, live for NOW.
Follow the bliss and your long-ago vow.”
Ruth’s parents were amazed at the difference in their daughter, seemingly overnight. She finished college, continued with a graduate degree in physics with a minor in metaphysics. She had to fight for that minor from MIT, but finally, a few years later, a Ph.D. Meta became a valued endorsement.
When Martha and David introduce their daughter to friends now, their faces beam when they declare: “Ruth is visiting us this weekend. She’s a spiritual healer with a full practice in Cambridge, and she teaches metaphysics at Harvard. It’s their most popular class.”
Interesting read, I’m glad Ruth followed her dreams and the pictures are beautiful.
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Right now I don’t have an answer to Ruth’s question but it’s really got me thinking maybe I’ll find it
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Thinking about our life’s purpose is always good. 😉
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A profound story. it took early widowhood, single parenting of a toddler, and my second wife’s influence to find mine, which is indicated here: https://derrickjknight.com/2012/07/18/directions/
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Ah, the journey we take to find out what’s inside us. Lovely post, Derrick. Thank you for sharing. I think those journeys we take are truly the essence of who we are. ❤
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A thoughtful story, Pam. I’m glad Ruth found her heart-filled work!
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“With a little help from her friends,” Merril. May we all listen to our dreams as well. ❤
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This is an inspiring story, Pam. Good for Ruth for following her heart and discovering what she was meant to do. Not everyone is lucky enough to realize how important it is to make such a discovery.
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Yes, Jill. And I think Ruby and Ruth share their stories so we all learn to listen to those voices that urge us to learn who we are, and where our life’s path can lead us. A little whoo whoo, but really, I think there’s a lot of whoo whoo around us. 🙂 xo
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A fascinating tie-in to last week’s story, Pam. I’m really intrigued. I’m wondering if we’re going to hear more about Ruby, Trudy, and Ruth.
As for the question, I know what I’m here for. It’s the doing that’s challenging, but I work at it every day.
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If we aren’t challenged, the journey we’re on probably isn’t the right one. Yes? Keep on doing what you’re doing, Amy! ❤
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The journey one takes is not always obvious to others – or even to themselves … and most often meandering.
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Ah, but that meandering is so important, isn’t it Frank? Here’s to more meandering in our lives (and if it’s on a beach, so much the better). 🙂
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Great story, Pam. A lot to think about from all angles, of being a parent and trusting your adult children to follow their own ideas. And of course, about Ruth!
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I think one of the hardest things as a parent is to allow our child to be his/her SELF, whatever that is. Thanks for your great observation in this story, Barbara.
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A lovely story. We are all individuals and have to follow our own hearts in order to be satisfied. It is great that Ruth´s ancestors helped her along. When I met Jane Goodall, she signed her book to me and wrote, “Follow your bliss.” I never forgot that. She is a great example of someone who went where her heart took her and has made a huge difference.
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Jane Goodall is a saint, in my mind. I met her once also, and I could FEEL her gold/white aura. Follow your bliss – that’s the answer! ❤
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You certainly can feel her aura. And she makes you feel like you are the only one in the room while she speaks to you.
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Yes! When she touched each person who stood in line to talk to her I almost felt it was like a laying on of hands.
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Oh! I very much like where you took this. And what a lucky young lady to discover exactly what her heart-filled work was. I fear I am still searching…
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I disagree, Dale, you are DOING your life’s work. Your being shines; even I can tell that through the ethernet. I don’t think it’s the career that matters so much, it’s the life work of BEING fully there for ourselves and others. ❤
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Oh Pam. What a lovely thing to say! You’ve put me at a loss for words! I do know that I absolutely want to BE fully there/here/wherever! 💞
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I thought your last question was a good one, Pamela. First off. I enjoyed the story. Second (off?) My heart’s filled life’s work has to be renamed my heatt filled rest of life work and that is writing. I did all the right things for my first 70 years being college, job, kids, kids college, retirement savings. Now I’m free to handle the heart filled work. Super post. 😊
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Chuckling. I always wondered about that also – Second off? And if so, why is first …. off? Anyway . . . (we wordies have fun, don’t we?) I love the way you have renamed this to HEART-FILLED work. Y E S, exactly. In a better world, we should be able to follow our heart-filled work all life long.
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Thank you, Pamela. I do envy those who are able to live a life and work at what makes them happy. 😁
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Ah. So lovely, Pam. I completely agree with Rumi. There’s a need for meaning and purpose in each of us and that “work” feeds us as much as it feeds those around us. A lovely story about Ruby’s journey, and a a wonderful conclusion to A New Realm. 🙂
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Your comments always fill me with relief and gratefulness, Diana. I wanted a short sequel to the Ruby story, but Ruby/Ruth had so much to say (and show). Rumi of course said it all in one sentence. Work that feeds the soul is never work – it’s life’s bliss.
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Isn’t it amazing how a whole story can be conveyed in a few words and evoke such character and emotion. That’s part of the magic of what we do.
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Thank you for the uplifting story and music Pam. I wish I knew my heart’s desire. That question haunted me for about 40 years. Finally, I decided to drop the questions, seeking, and simply try to enjoy the life in front of me.
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You perhaps have found the right answer and the right path for you Brad. Everything we read about and meditate about is just enjoying the NOW. Go for that!
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OK teacher. I’ll revel in the now per you and Eckhart Tolle. Oohhmm. 😳
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Haha. Thanks for the chuckle. But I must admit, I’ve recently re-read Eckhard Tolle’s books and I connect with those teachings. 🙂
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Such a lovely story, and it resonates with so much truth! Life is a precious gift, and we should honor our dreams and passions. 🙂
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Seems like an easy motto to follow: honor our dreams and passions. But we humans sometimes make the simple become complex, don’t we? To simplicity and enjoying the gift. ❤
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I enjoyed the continuation of your story. I think I’m still discovering my (maybe many) heart-filled life’s work.
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Oh, absolutely Janis. Part of the fun of living a good long life is continuing the journey of filling our hearts – and others – with our “work” – of giving and being. ❤
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“I can’t be other than what I am.” Thanks for sharing this story. I’ve always been baffled at people who can become chameleons, changing their color depending on the company they are in. I don’t know how to be anything other than me.
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And that’s the best person to be, Lori! xo
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What a thought provoking story, Pam. I do believe we come here for a purpose and sometimes we got lost from it. Writing has always been a way for me to reconnect to it. Nice follow up of the first story!
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I feel the same way, Denise. Writing can really “show” us our innermost feelings and the path to our heart-filled life’s work. ❤
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Ah! I wish more people could understand what lies in the heart of their children and more children care to share it. All dreams don’t see the light of the day. I like how realism merges into your earlier story. Well-done Pam.
I’ve always followed my heart but only when I was away from compulsions and pressures of people around me.
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So glad (relieved! 🙂 ) you like my follow up to Ruby’s journey, and then on to Ruth’s. You bring up such a good point. We need to listen to our own inner voice, not the voices of others! xo
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A fascinating continuation of the story Pam. I wonder how many people find their heart-filled life’s work. Throughout my nursing career, and now with aging family and friends, my truest work has revolved around assisting the dying through their final chapter here on earth. I can imagine for many that would seem odd, yet it has been such a privilege to be present with these travelers.
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Wow Sue, I cannot think of any life‘s work more worthwhile or fulfilling than being with others as they pause and rest and go to their next chapter. Have you read Jodi Picoult’s latest book called the book of two ways? It’s not her best book and has way too much detail in it but her main character is a death doula and helps people as they pass to the next destination, closing the book of their life here as they journey on. As you say-what a privilege to be part of that journey. 💜
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I have not read it Pam but will add it to the list. I have heard of death doulas. I’m not sure I could emotionally manage to do it as a full time career however what a gift it has been to journey with those leaving this world.
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My heart-filled life’s work has been writing my blog. I know that sounds corny but of all the things I’ve done, it’s the one thing that I feel has added the most value to this world. Not to sound arrogant, but I was meant to be a blogger long before such a thing existed.
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Goosebumps! I read and reread your comment. Not corn-y in the slightest – not even spinach or broccoli. It is chock-full of wonder and light and I certainly am happy that you and I are fellow bloggers and searchers for the storied truth. 🙏 👏
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Love the metaphysics! Studying The Teachings of the Great Ones and working on my own inner life is my purpose. True healing comes from within. Only then we can truly be of service in the world and not harm anyone.
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Beautifully said, Patricia. I think the word “metaphysics” scare some people away when really it’s as you say – all that is within us.
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Lots of food for thought… Great story, Pam!
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Isn’t it wonderful – our appetite for thought and wonder, Bette? 💓
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Indeed! ❤
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Ruth’s temperament reminds me about the saying ‘watch out for the quiet ones.’ This story also reminds me about a past comment, where we possibly have a little of ourselves in the characters. A thought-provoking story about dreams in general…old souls….and life’s work….I do believe I know my answer, although, too multi-layered and complex in a comment. It has been the thread woven throughout my life. I will continue to mull on this great story, Pam 🙂
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Ah, you are one of the “quiet ones” like I am, Erica. We play in our dreams and listen to our dream masters and then we weave the threads of our life and our loves as best we can! 💖
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I have asked Ruth’s question many times in the last few years. I keep coming back to the same place. I think I’m right where I’m meant to be. Having retired three years earlier than I expected due to health reasons, I feel like I still feel like I have unfinished business, especially with children. When I decided to write, it is with kids in mind to teach some lessons without preaching. Once a teacher, always a teacher.
I think we all have a responsibility to contribute something positive to the world. I can only control my choices, but I hope others see the big picture too. Life will go on without us, but have we made the world a better place by being part of it?
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I think people like you and me – and it seems like everyone who shares blogs here with each other-worry about how we fit in the world. How we make a difference. And the fact is the longer I am adventuring on this earth, the more I’m learning that just Being and feeling a true essence of love and sharing joy and wonder with others… Is giving a lot. And that way, whatever profession we choose to delve into, we are giving. I am so glad that through your retirement you have discovered blogging and writing your stories, Pete.
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Maybe someday I’ll remember to proofread my thoughts before sending them out into the world, but I doubt it.😎
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I did not see any typos! And I reread your comment twice! Maybe you and I proofread the same way. 😛
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I love this continuation of the original story, Pam. Inspiring and thought-provoking!
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Thanks Donna. I wanted a quick clean getaway sequel but Ruth had other plans. 🙃😗
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I like Mary Oliver’s instructions for living a life, “Pay attention. Be astonished. Tell about it.” When I was a child, all my heart ever longed for was motherhood and a connection to my ancestors. Now that my children are grown I guess my life’s work is still centered around my ancestors. And paying attention to the simple joys of life itself.
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I do believe paying attention to the simple joys and wonders of life is definitely heart-filled work. Except it’s not work it’s heart-filled joy!
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I read your post and most of the comments. One comment, from YOU, that especially resonated is this: If we aren’t challenged, the journey we’re on probably isn’t the right one.” I just wrote a story about living in a 25-foot travel trailer with 2 babies for a year and half with a husband (Yes, the same one!) who was doing art and music performances and wanted our family to stay together as we gallivanted all over the Southeast. It was HARD, but the point is that the hard stuff usually provides a bridge to the next step.
Now, I can look back through the 20/20 telescope of time and recognize that all the challenges provided bridges to the next step in my journey, always discovering more of who I was meant to be. Now, my job is to cheer on my grandchildren as they discover their best lives.
You are a genius at intriguing stories and the questions they provoke. Brava, Pam!
P. S. I like the word play in the names, connecting them to a previous story: Ruby and Trudy (TRUE-dy)!
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Ahhhh- True-dy! That is so cool. As a writer you know how wonderful it is when readers catch diamonds in our writing-rough. Thank you for doing that. And I think when I wrote that comment- and actually when I write in general – that is when I discover these truths. 💖
And now isn’t it difficult to watch our grandchildren go through their challenges, even though we know they must go through them to find their truths.
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Finding your passion is so important, and incredibly difficult. Excellent story.
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Thank you thank you Jacqui. I did not want to meander too much But I needed to show how confused Ruth was until she finally heard the “find your bliss and act on it” dream message.
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I got that, Pam, nicely said. It’s hard to trust a passion but in the end, it’s what make life most fulfilling.
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Good story, Pam.
My heart-filled purpose has changed over time as the path unfolded before me.
At present, my purpose is to stay resolved to each breath, each act, and each moment being enjoyed . . . and to give thanks regardless of any setbacks.
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The power of NOW! Life-and heart-affirming for sure. 💖
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Ruth and her wisdom resonate throughout the story and I love the mystical element within. A mysterious past that nearly consumes her present until the powerful dream. If only we were guided with such force, to live the life we want without the diversions along the way! A terrific short story that touches the core of our existence, our choices. Pam, you’ve left us all exploring the answer to your question: ‘What is your heart-filled life’s work?’ Xx
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I think we ARE guided, when we chose to listen, Annika! But of course, diversions may be part of the “plan.” 🙂 I think our diversions may have led us to be the writers that we are. ❤
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Pam, I think you are definitely right … so many diversions along the way, each one adding to our creative being. A friend sent a quote to me today as I was bemoaning two hour ‘chat’ with WP trying to sort a problem … it fits a bit : ‘“The impediment to action advances action. What stands in the way becomes the way.” Marcus Aurelius
BTW. Belated Happy Birthday … hope you had a wonderful and special birthday! love & hugs xx 🎈💃🌺🍹
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But “the way” is so challenging sometimes! 😱 WP is driving me crazy btw… Thanks for the birthday wishes. 💚
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Not just me then!? I was on for two hour long chat with WP hapiness engineers the other day … let’s just say I left anything but happy! 🙁
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They are messing with our heads, Annika. Not nice and I don’t understand it. But you and I have to hang in there!! 😲😬🤞🙏
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Wonderful story, Pam. My life’s purpose has always been to have no regrets when I die. Of course, like everyone else, I have regretted the small stuff and decisions, but so far, I’m on track to live the life I truly want and enjoy. 🙂
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And we’re having such a good time reading about/watching you on your life’s purpose ride, LIesbet!
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So important! And I’ll have to think about my answer…although, I’ve always cared deeply about animals, writing, family, and children. And although my professional career has been remarkably unimpressive, I did stay home to raise our two children, I’ve published one book and blogged for six years, and I volunteer at an animal shelter, so who knows? Maybe in my own muddled way, I am following my heart’s desire.
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In my mind, Ann, you have followed your life’s purpose for years and years. ❤
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This is a very enjoyable story, Pam. I don’t know what my life’s purpose is yet. I have a secret hope it will be to write an enduring novel like All Quiet on the Western Front or A Gentleman in Moscow, but who knows what is yet to come in life.
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As long as you enjoy the writing ride, you’re riding your life’s purpose, Robbie! ❤
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I don’t really know what my purpose is. Sometimes it’s teaching, sometimes it’s telling stories. I think I need both. 🙂
Great story, Pam. Thank you.
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Basically, perhaps our purpose in life is just to BE. And in the BEING, savor what we do. ❤
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Ah… -grin- but just being is sometimes the hardest thing to do!
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Ohhh so true 😠🙏
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skilful story telling … my only reason for being here is to serve others!
Enjoyed the song 🙂
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That is BEAUTIFUL, and if only all of us did the same. Thanks for reading. ❤
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it’s a work in progress but I keep trying 🙂
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My heart filled work is aiding and assisting individuals become aware of themselves as it relates to them gaining insight to what , how and who they hold in thought or keep thought of. It’s the thought of, that holds individuals back from moving into their heart fill work.
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Pam love those ah ha moments when path becomes prologue and previously unconnected dots form a string of pearls that lead to the finally so obvious moment of ah ha, yes this is my heart filled life’s work. Peta and I had it as a kind of simultaneous combustion around the imperative of doing whatever we could on the climate change continuum from climate mitigation to climate adaption. And so since then (around the time when the Al Gore movie “An Inconvenient Truth” came out), we have tried to shape our life trajectory around seizing opportunities to have meaningful impact. What comes to mind is a trip we took to Haiti carrying 100 tiny bamboo seedlings which today hopefully have grown into a mature forest.
Thought provoking story.
Ben
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Ah! I just wrote over at your Empty Nesters site and then see, here you are. Delightful wonderful inspiring response to The Long Ago Vow, Ben. I think more of us should look deep inside and see what our passion is, what we need to do to inspire ourselves and to be fully realized. You and Peta most certainly have done that. ❤
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