As we begin to mix the batter for peanut butter kiss cookies (my grandson’s -GS’s – choice), I hum to the Christmas music in the background. GS has refused to wear my “Christmas apron” that I bring out every December for cookie-baking.
GS is all-boy, immature for his age in some ways while being wise beyond his years. Last year as we mixed the sugar and flour, he confessed to me that he was 158 years old.
I believed him. I still do.
The apron is bright reds and greens and black, ruffled at the bottom with fluffy sayings like “Enjoy every bite.”
“Madre,” GS explains when he declines to wear the feminine apron, “That is NOT a Christmas apron.”
“Of course it is,” I proclaim. And then we read every word on it – “Home Sweet Home,” “Bloom Where You’re Planted,” surrounded by red cherries and flowers, but not one Merry and not one Christmas. Shoot, he’s right!
He beats the heck out of the batter with great enjoyment as I add baking soda and salt, then eggs and finally the peanut butter. As his arm muscles stiffen, he asks me a deep question. “How come Christmas celebrates the birth of Jesus?”
Huh? I know that GS and his mom have recently watched a video about Jesus, since GS has never attended Sunday School.
“Well, the story is that Jesus was born in a manger because his parents couldn’t afford to stay in an inn, and yet a large star shone above the barn, and shepherds and wealthy merchants all came to celebrate his birth,” I say.
“Uh huh,” GS responds, holding the mixing bowl with one hand, the beater with another, his tongue out in concentration.
“And, um, that happened about 2, 021 years ago,” I continue, “and much of the world goes by a calendar that starts with his birth.”
The beater stops, and GS looks up at me with skepticism. “Then how come December 25 isn’t the first day of the year? Why do we have a New Year’s Day a week later?”
Damn if I know. I never asked those questions when I was 10. Or 50. “Well, because…”
GS interrupts: “Plus, they say that Jesus was born in March.”
I turn the Christmas music up louder and suggest, “Time to roll this dough into balls and around the sugar, then pop them into the oven.”
Baking rumination is hard work!
As good a date as any! he is adorable. I bet those cookies were yummy. Happy Christmas to you and yoru family my friend. xo
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The cookies were “out of this world”! A few left… hidden. 😙
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Out of the mouths of babes comes very logical thoughts! GS makes quite a bit of sense. Perhaps it is time to re-jig our calendar?!
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I love the way GS thinks. Out of the box… and that forces ME to think! 🤓
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Kids so often give us a different perspective on life. Sometimes the raw truth! Uncoloured by the conventions of adulthood.
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The raw truth is so much more interesting than the misty blur we adults sometimes spread about life and history. Thank you so much for your comment!
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Indeed!
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Pam, a very wise grandson and I bet he keeps you all on your toes! I love his questions, logic and knowledge… and this was just a gentle chitchat over baking! Wonder what he thinks about when concentrating seriously! 😀
This is such a beautiful post for the season, family, baking, cookies galore and even a Christmas apron (well, nearly!😃)
Wishing you and your family a very special Christmas with all the magic and blessings of the seasons! Enjoy, my dear friend! ❤️
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Thanks Annika. In fact, GS keeps his thoughts close to the vest most times (hmmm, an old expression) unless baking or sometimes walking with me. Thus, I bake and walk as much as possible with him! ☺️ MERRY merry Christmas to you and yours. ❤️💚
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he is a bright one, that’s clear. inquiring minds want to know… and all fair questions. I do believe him when he says he’s 158, he’s definitely an old soul. and cute as heck.
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I bet you meet lots of old souls when you teach, Beth. I’ve learned much from this boy – more than I can teach him. (Except the importance of measuring- he learned that from me.) 😁
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a win-win
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Lovely post, Pam. It sounds like you had (have) such a wonderful time with him. Special moments indeed!
I’ll start baking cookies and bread this weekend. Happy Holidays to you and your family!
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Happy baking, Merril. Your breads and baked goods always look so good!!!
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Thank you! Hope you enjoy your baking, too Pam!
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GS ❤ A wise soul. ❤ Pam. xXx
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How I love it when wise old souls reveal themselves. 😍
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He is adorable.
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He is! And a good egg cracker too! 💚☺️
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That’s great🤣🤣
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Well, there was trouble and even fights among the Christians for dating their festivals during the middle ages and even up to the 17th c. You can read this all in a very informative book
“The Calendar” by David Ewing Duncan
There is no year 0 and it seems to be that the birth of Jesus was around 4 BCE.
Happy holidays
The Fab Four of Cley
🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂
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Even a calendar is complicated in this world! Let’s forget what day it is and just eat cookies. ❤️
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GREAT!
❤ ❤ ❤ ❤
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Only 10 and challenging all those traditions with such thoughtful questions? He’s going to make some good trouble in his lifetime! Thanks for sharing such a fun story, and Merry Christmas, Pam! 🎄
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“Good trouble.” A great oxymoron- and yes he will! 😇 Merry Christmas 🎄
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My heart is melting! I love the photo of you two, Pam. Merry Christmas to you and your beautiful family! xo
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Luckily the kisses just melted on the bottom.. 😊 But I love it when our hearts melt. Thanks, Jill! 🎄❤️
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Your grandson is fantastic. Such fun to be in the kitchen together, isn’t it? And, I hate when they ask all those hard questions. I sometimes say, “I’m old, maybe you should ask your parents”.
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Haha. I will NOT admit I’m old, but I will admit that I know so little. ☺️ Yes, baking is JOY with our grandkiddies. Merry merry to you!
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Your grandson is one smart cookie. 😉
I wish you and your family all the joy and peace of the season and a very merry Christmas. Happy New Year to all!
And my favorite cookie is a Russian Teacake.
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Great pun, Amy. Yes, GS is a smart cookie and a love bug ( although he’d never admit it..) 😁 Christmas blessings and peace and joy to you and your family, my friend. ❤️💚
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❤
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PS: yummmm Russian tea cakes!!!
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What a delightful post, Pam. Children do pose the questions to stump us, don’t they? I love the conversations that are sparked when cooking/baking together. Even now, with my almost 24-year-old, when I am allowed to help him when he is cooking, we chat about stuff we don’t usually.
I baked my Quick Fruitcake this morning as I need to deliver one to a friend who cannot have a Christmas without one! Maybe some biscotti this weekend…
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Quick fruitcake – an oxymoron? Sounds brilliant. Yes, baking with a normally reticent person (or driving in the car with one) can produce some good conversations. Usually I bake alone, and never with an adult, but adding a “kid” spices up the kitchen. 🙂
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I know, right? But this recipe is. And it’s delicious – those who hate fruitcake, love this one. I also prefer to bake and cook alone but hey, if one is sitting by the counter keeping me company? That’s okay 🙂
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Hi. How little we know. Luckily, every day can be a learning experience. See ya.
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And children let us know often how little we know. First in their questions when young, then in their assurance that we “KNOW NOTHING” when they are teens. 🙂
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I love that you two can bake and share tender and thoughtful moments together Pam. It is so refreshing how open, curious, and direct children are until they’re taught differently. Merry Christmas! 🎄💕
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Wise words, Brad. I let my grandkids know that no question is a dumb question. Particularly when I don’t know the answer! ;-0 🙂 (Which is often…) Merry Christmas to you, my friend.
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Merry Christmas Pam. Wishing you and your a love filled holiday!
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He would be so much fun to bake with. Lovely time.
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GS is so much fun to watch, as well as to bake with. I love the tongue hanging out in concentration. He believes in the value of beating for loooooooooonnnnnnnngggg minutes, and measuring precisely. 🙂
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Assign him the job of mixing devil eggs yolks (they take forever to break down) and knead bread. He’ll love working those forever!
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Good idea!
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My own memories of childhood Christmases involve so much baking, and his will, too. I’ll bet he might even keep some of those recipes, and make them himself in years to come: a true heritage.
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At some point I’ll make GS a little recipe book of our favorite cookies. He’ll appreciate it once he’s 25 or so. 🙂 To our Christmas baking memories! Merry, Merry. ❤
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I believe him too. He has been exposed to some real history, not the stuff made up to make people do what someone else wants them to do. I admire whoever exposed real history to him. I always tell people I was born 108 years old and working my way backwards. Funny how kids are more connected than adults. He’s a treasure and you are sure to get quite the education. 😉 Warms my heart.
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Marlene, as always your words put a little tingle in my heart. Love that you were 108 when you were born. Yes, some of us are old souls, for sure. To warm hearts, wherever we may be (hoping your travels are going well….) xo
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Travels are going quite well and meeting kind people everywhere. It’s a very different Christmas. Wishing you and yours a very merry one with all the bells and whistles. Love and hugs. m
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Somehow, baking and kids go so well together and especially at this time of the year. That is such a delightful photo of you, grandson and the baked goodies!
A truly Happy Christmas Pam—from my home to yours. Today mine is filled with mince tarts and chocolate cherry chunks (cookies). May 2022 be an especially joyful, healthy and happy year for you and your family!
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Minced tarts and chocolate cherry chunks!! Be still my heart. Do you share recipes?? I used to love mince pie during holidays, but my dad and I were the only ones, so our family stopped baking it many years ago. And putting cherry in chocolate chunk cookies just sounds brilliant! 🙂 Merry, merry to you and yours. ❤
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I love to share my recipes–the Chocolate Cherry Chunks is especially adaptable to dairy-free and gluten-free diets. Let me know and I’ll blog it for my end of the year blog on http://www.chocofigbee.com. It will be on my fave baked goods!
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HI Pam, baking with kids is always so much fun. I do know the answer to your grandson’s question but it is long and complex and would not enthrall a 10-year old.
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Sometimes the most simple answer to a complex question is the best. 🙂 Plus, so many answers to one question. I’ll just concentrate on baking cookies. Your baking always inspires me, Robbie. xo
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What a wonderful memory and questions! Merry Christmas, Pam 🙂
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To old souls, Christmas baking, and joy. Merry Christmas Denise!! ❤
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Kids can be too smart for their britches (and I wonder where that phrase came from!) – but as long as you were having a lot of fun, which you definitely were,
who cares?
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I’ve always thought that britches were suspenders (back in the day before belts) but maybe they’re pants…? In either case, GS is smart and witty and full of questions. I filled his mouth with cookies so he’d stop asking. Haha.
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158 going on 258 I’d say Pam… Lovely to read you whit and charming posts again and to see your lovely grandson and you having such fun together… Good to be back and catch you with your Apron on.. 🙂 ❤ Hugs your way ❤
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So glad you’re back to envelope us with peace, hope, love, joy. So much comes from this blogosphere. To old souls everywhere, Sue. ❤
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Bless you dear Pam…. I am slow getting back into the swing…As I am not sitting so many hours in my computer these days, I cannot concentrate and focus with my eyes so much without my vision being affected… But I am so pleased to among so many true friends here again in Blogsphere.. 🙂 ❤
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Yes, true friends on the blogosphere – a type of miracle, to me. And yes, I have a lot of difficulty with my eyes on the computer screen as well, so I do what I can. To our “sight” in more ways than one. ❤
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I have magnified the print so much to stop eye strain…Sight is so important.. Both in the Material and the Astral sense LOL…. Happy New Year dear Pam….. Stay Blessed my friend…. Hugs and well wishes for 2022 ❤
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Delightful! He raises some good points. Perhaps you have a historian-to-be on your hands? Hope the cookies were delicious.
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GS may definitely become a historian, or monk, or scientist, or software engineer, or a chef. Or… all of the above. 🙂 Merry, Merry.
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Great questions! What a smart – and adorable – boy. Happy cookie baking, and Merry Christmas!
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Thank you, Janis. GS is adorable, particularly when spending time with his grandmother. 🙂 Haha. Merry Merry Christmas to you.
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I love your grandson’s questions, Pam. We should write down all the questions the kids ask. I agree with Robbie, and think about how to answer them to a three, ten, fifteen, twenty-five, or fifty-five years old. The cookies look yummy. So good you and your grandson had so much fun cooking and talking!
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Some questions have no simple answer. So… bake cookies instead! 🙂 Merry Christmas to you and yours, Miriam. ❤
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I agree with you, Pam! ❤ Merry Christmas and bake lots of cookies! 🙂
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Happy holidays to you, too, Pam!
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Thanks SO much for visiting. Hope to read your book sometime soon. ❤
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You need to keep GS, even if he wants to wiggle out of wearing that Christmas apron. That young man asks wise questions because he has an inquiring mind, like his Madre. I wonder what he would think of Luke 2.
You sprinkled some sayings throughout your lovely story. I’ll add one I saw in my endodontist’s office today: “Be merry and stay that way!” 😀
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Awww, Marian. YOU keep me merry – your blogs, your books, your comments, and your beautiful way of viewing life. Merry Christmas to you, my friend. (And may the holiday include some yummy cookies….) ❤
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I love kids who ask questions and think deeply! Great holiday story! Wishing you a great holiday season!
Just thought I’d let you know that the Erma Bombeck Writing contest began Nov. 30 and runs through Jan. 4, — 450 words or fewer. You’ve written some great material and you always make us laugh. Hope you think about participating. Here is the link: https://wclibrary.info/erma/
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Thank you so much for your support and your excellent comments (and wonderful blog on children’s books). I’ve earmarked the Erma Bombeck Writing contest and will enter it before the 4th. Yikes! I better figure out what to write. 🙂 Happy Holidays.
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Terrific post, Pamela. I could almost smell the cookies. It must be lovely to have a little one close enough to help with cookies.
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This one could go in your top 10 list of what NOT to do when baking Christmas cookies. Perhaps #5 – do not answer religious questions. 🙂 Yes, I’m so lucky to have grandkids nearby to bake cookies. The only problem is that they eat them too – not much left for my guy and me. 🙂
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As I suggested to my grandmother a long time ago, “Make more.”
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Haha! I love all of this because it reminds me so much of the funny things about kids—especially boys. Don’t make us wear some sissy apron, but we love being with our grandmas. While they’re all over the place and seemingly not paying attention, they come up with these profound thoughts—ones that are entirely logical and rational that we have no response to.
I have a feeling you’ll enjoy my guest blogger from today, Pam. You may already follow my guest blogger Chel Owens—mother of six boys. Here’s her funny post from today https://petespringerauthor.wordpress.com/2021/12/17/chel-owens-guest-blogger/
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I am off to read your blog post. I always love your blog because the posts are so real and so family centered as well as imbued with kindness and thoughtfulness. Yes boys are wonderful creatures. ☺️
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Hi, Pam – That is a gorgeous photo of you and your grandson. I love his questions and his rapid responses!
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GS keeps me on my toes for sure, Donna. I love bonding with him over cookies and questions. Thank you so much! ❤️🙏
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Love, love, love this. The picture is priceless. Happy Holidays to all.
Shirley Novack
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Thanks so much Shirley. Wish I could’ve brought you some peanut butter kiss cookies – but they were all gone within a few hours. 🤨😳🎅
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He’s a delight.
Obviously, he takes after YOU!
Love the photo!
BTW: If you want to expand the discussion with him, bring the Celts and Winter Solstice into the mix. 😀
Though December 25 is the day Christians celebrate the birth of Jesus Christ, the date itself and several of the customs we’ve come to associate with Christmas actually evolved from pagan traditions celebrating the winter solstice . . .
The two most notable pagan winter holidays were Germanic Yule and Roman Saturnalia. Christian missionaries gave these holidays a makeover and they are now known to us as Christmas.
Saturnalia (detail) by Antoine Callet, 1783.It was a public holiday celebrated around December 25th in the family home. A time for feasting, goodwill, generosity to the poor, the exchange of gifts and the decoration of trees. But it wasn’t Christmas. This was Saturnalia, the pagan Roman winter solstice festival.
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Yes, yes. Beautiful explanations here Nancy! Maybe I’ll try this next year when we make snickerdoodles and gingerbread cookies. 😇🙏🎄
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You have to be careful what you tell children. Their questions and comments sometimes cut to the heart of the matter. Then you have to know how to answer their often reasonable, logical questions. He looks like a thoughtful, cute kid. I can see you enjoy him. Have a wonderful Christmas.
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GS can be talkative at times but at other times very very quiet. That’s when I know his mind is really working! One time when I was driving him back home and explaining how when I was his age there were no seatbelts he asked me – it seemed in all honesty – “well when you were a kid wasn’t it a horse and buggy?” I laughed but not until I explained that no I was not that old!!!
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Your grandson sounds like a wide old soul. What thoughtful questions he poses. He’s probably figured out that the most important questions have no answers. 😉 What a blessing to have him in your life helping with the cookie baking and other matters. Happy Holidays, Pam!
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Sorry, *wise*, not *wide*
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I think it takes more years in our life until we realize that there is never just one answer! That said, I love his curiosity and his putting up with my storytelling and vague answers. 😅 💚❤️
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LOL, so many hard questions! But if he’s 158 years old maybe a part of him knows that there’s many many answers to every question. Luckily he’s got a storyteller GM who can ruminate with the best of ’em!
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Storytelling definitely keeps the answers at bay because the story itself is much more interesting! 🙃❤️
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Love a kid who is brave enough to ask questions!! And yes, I believe that December 25 is the day we celebrate Jesus’ birth, but it most likely not his actual birthday. Nothing is as fun as baking Christmas cookies with child or grandchild, is there? I love making Spritz, myself!
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Spritz! Do tell what that is. Baking during the holidays is what makes the holiday… A holiday! ❤️💚
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They’re like a shortbread cookie, only the dough is very soft and shaped with a cookie press. I make mine in the shape of little Christmas trees and dye them green, with red sprinkles. Tacky, but tasty!
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I’m all in for tacky (if it means colors and sprinkles) during the holidays!!
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Such deep thoughts while making cookies! What an inquisitive guy you have there. I’m looking forward to baking this week. Our favorites? Pizzelles, sugar cookies and shortbread!
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I love all three. Yum!! 👩🍳
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What would I give for a grandson like that. This year I baked cookies by myself, how boring. My favorite cookie is a hazelnut meringue cookie .
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I remember your recipe for hazelnut meringue cookies! I make a meringue cookie that we call forgotten cookies but haven’t gotten the hazelnut in there yet, just chocolate chips! 😁
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Those cookies in the closing photo look like they came out great!
And love the GS smile with yours –
Precious time for sure
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And is that a Mary Englebert apron? I used to love her stuff and still kind of do.
🎄💚😊
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Yes, you are correct about the apron. A good friend gave me that apron years ago because we both love the Engelbreit drawings (and we both get the Mary Engelbreit desk calendar each year). I bring the apron out for baking every Christmas. The boy grands are starting to balk about wearing it though. Hope you’re having a great holiday. 🙂
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Hi – the holiday is finally quieting down a little –
And this year I got my mother n law a flax seed heating bag with a fun Mary Engelbreit cover – the kind you warm up and use to heat your body.
I have seen many artists copy or make versions of art that seem to be inspired by Engelbreit – she sure started a fun design that is busy as its charm – and colorful with design
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And now wishing you a happy new year
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What a cutie! Love the story and he is right about the New Year…
Hm. To think we’ve been doing it wrong for mere centuries. 😀
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My next lesson to the grands is that “time is relative.” 🙂 🙂 🙂 Thanks for visiting and commenting. Happy Holidays as we approach the New Year (whenever it is….)
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-grin- 158 going on 500! Merry Christmas to you both. 🙂
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I never “feel my age,” and my boy grand feels 100 years older. Go figure. 🙂 Happy Holidays and New Year to you!
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-grin- We are ageless, m’dear, ageless! Happy New Year to you too. -hugs-
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Good answer, Pam. When in doubt, sidestep!!
Probably anything with marzipan. 🙂
Merry Christmas!
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Sidestepping – my favorite dancing and question-answering maneuver. 🙂
Marzipan is luscious!! Merry Merry.
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Lovely post! Your grandson is adorable!!! Merry Christmas and wishing you blessings in the New Year!
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Sending you joyful wishes for a grand new year as we still soak in the holidays, Linda. With cookies of course. 🙂 ❤
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There was a time when my sons enjoyed baking cookies with me. Have a wonderful Christmas!
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I know, I know. I loved baking with my kids. The happy news is that they now bake with THEIR kids when they have time, but mostly send them on to me to crack the eggs, measure the sugar/flour, and enjoy. 🙂 Hope your holidays are happy.
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Such a cheerful, happy story for Christmas Eve.
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Thank you – glad you enjoyed!
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Ohh wow
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Haha. A lovely post, Pam. I love the photo of the two of you. Hugs on the wing.
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To the power of cookies, Teagan. May the New Year be a sweet one for you. ❤
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Those questions are definitely too hard to answer during cookie making! But then if he’s 158 maybe he should be answering the questions 🙂
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EXCELLENT point, Andrea. And GS does seem to always “know” the answers, no matter how correct or relevant they are. 🙂 Happy New Year.
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I guess he taught you something: Never argue with a 158-year-old soul LOL
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Haha! That’s exactly right. Thanks for the fun comment.
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So interestingly engaging conversation⭐
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