I researched a lot before I began writing about psychic dreams and found out that I already knew more than most.
Many don’t believe that dreams tell us the future, but I was just a 12-year-old when I discovered the truth. Since then, I’ve often purposely shut out memory of my dreams – the future can seem dark and dangerous.
It all began when an elderly woman – well, to me she was elderly, but looking back she was 60-something – chose to teach me the fine art of psychic phenomena. Lillian was an older friend of my mom’s although not close; the two were as different as cheese and cream. But one afternoon when I returned from school, Lillian was sitting at our kitchen table as if waiting for me.
“Would you like to visit me once a week?” she asked. “Just to talk. I’m a lonely old woman with Jack working such long hours.” 
And oh how Lillian talked, regaling me with her psychic experiences: ESP, telepathy, clairvoyance. I was fascinated and immediately believed every word. She had no reason to lie to me, yet I also knew that she’d never share these thoughts with my mom or any other friend.
Lillian’s husband, Jack, worked at his lumber company but sometimes came home for lunch, eating his baloney and cheese sandwich standing over the kitchen sink. Occasionally he’d walk into the red den where I sat listening to Lillian, spellbound.
“I don’t believe a word of it, not a word,” Jack said one day. “But truth be told, I’ve seen my Lillian in action.”
Lillian jumped up and hugged her gray-haired husband, patting him on the rear. I blushed, looking away. My parents, much younger, never displayed affection in front of me.
“Tell her about what happened two nights ago,” Jack urged, his wife’s arms still circling his waist.
Lillian smiled, albeit sadly.
“I woke up screaming, which woke Jack and he asked ‘What? WHAT?’
“’A crash. Horrible airplane crash,’ I cried out, my arms stinging as if burned. ‘122!’ I moaned.”
Then Jack continued the story because Lillian paled and sat on the couch, eyes vacant.
“An hour later we turned on the TV. The news report showed a plane wreck – not in the U.S. – that just happened two hours earlier. Many passengers burned beyond recognition.”
I gasped.
Jack continued, “Later we learned that 122 people had perished.”
Lillian startled and asked me, “was that telepathy or clairvoyance? Or just a dream that turned true? I’m determined to answer these questions.”
I never learned if she figured it out, so in honor of Lillian, I’m still researching.


What a great story, Sadje! It is eerie but very cool as well. Bout dreams do show us what is troubling us for sure!
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Oops and that would be Pam!!! Sorry about that!
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And I’m not sure I want to know what’s ahead, if you know what I mean. 😉
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I have not had a psychic dream, so I can’t really say I don’t believe in them. I think some folks have a gift and personally don’t question that idea. Super story, Pamela.
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I think calling the ability to have a psychic experience is a “gift” as well, John. But sometimes it’s a gift that doesn’t want to be received!
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Yeah, it would present a person with a lot of responsibility.
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I don’t disbelieve. One of my friends has had them–not so much now, she says, but when she was younger. She’s told me they always have a particular quality, and she knows it’s one of “those dreams.”
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I understand your friend. Yes, I think we can tell; I kind of put a ‘hold’ on mine. They were too “eerie” as Cindy described in a commenbt, so I closed them off. I guess we can do that? :-0
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Well, I do have lucid dreams that I can control, so I suppose you can. 😊
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Absolutely. I’ll wake up from a dream that is a fascinating story and think “I’ll write this!” then doze on to complete the plot. Then, alas, when I wake up it’s gone – puff.
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I researched dreams and dreams that seemed to tell the future (and wrote five books about it). Dreams don’t tell you the future, but how we interpret dreams works on a static level, probability mathematics. Dreams don’t know more than you do, but they see what probably happens, seeing your actions and reactions. This is more valid than we are aware of because they go back to two memory stores, your consciousness and your unconsciousness.
We look back on nearly a hundred years of researching dreams that the dreamers thought they foretell the future. Until now, we couldn’t a scientific proof that dreams can look into the future. Modern dream research uses models of quantum physics. There exists a model of the Einstein student, John Wheeler, of multiple universes. There is a probability that a universe exists where time runs backwards (seen from our time level). But that is only a theory. In the research about dreams, science hasn’t found one dream that foresaw the future beyond probabilities. The most famous dream that Homer saw as foreseeing the future was that of Kassandra. But Homer’s ‘Ilias’ is fiction.
Sorry, to tell you this
Klausbernd 🙂
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Oh I love it and was hoping you’d read this post and comment. If there are multiple Universes and timelines, then it makes sense that a person who dreams into another time line can “see the future.” 🙂 Okay, no? I’ve gone too far? THANK you for your comment. Fascinating.
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Well, these quantum physics statements are kind of scientific metaphors. They are metaphors helping to get a rough idea of what’s happening that can only be grasped with mathematics. They are NOT a reality but a model.
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Hi. Well, I’m not a believer. Nonetheless, I enjoyed this story!
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That’s okay, Maybe, someday, you’ll become a believer. It’s all in the dreams. 🙂 Glad you enjoyed my (very true) story.
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The idea makes for a lot of great story plots and a lot of discussion around the very relaxed coffee table “rap” sessions.
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Certainly does. Or maybe during a “sleep over” when in the morning, everyone can share their dreams!!! 😉
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Like telling ghost stories at camp.
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YES!! Fun, huh? Particularly if we include s’mores. 🙂
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Confession time. I’ve never had a s’more.
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ACKKKKK!!! I’m so so sorry to hear that. If you like marshmallows, and chocolate, and graham crackers, it’s a MUST TRY.
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I’ve heard they’re very popular.
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I have had a psychic day dream… does that count? In this case, I think it was nature/spirits? preparing me for the worst. Which it did.
I would prefer not to have any more, to be honest.
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I believe that day dreams absolutely do count. And I’m sorry you had this one. I don’t think that I’d want to be “prepared for the worst” either. I guess that’s why we were created to not see into our future (unless we’re a dream psychic). ;–0
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Yeah. It stunned me somewhat (I saw my son’s funeral – or rather a small white casket and lots of people around – which is what happened a few months later.)
I’d prefer these to pass me by in the future, too.
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I’m keeping an open mind.
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Good for you, Liz. You never know what fascinating character may enter a dream and tell you the answer to a secret you always wanted to know. 🙂
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Thanks, Pam!
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I wish I could say for sure…belief/disbelief is so binary and rigid. Too many unusual (and sometimes prophetic) things have popped in my dreams over the years. Hard to ignore. And I’m happy to say most provide comfort of some sort – my subconscious bringing me nuggets of truth, pockets of peace.
And…Lillian. Ah, Lillian. Someone I would’ve enjoyed! 🥰
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Such a wise answer, Victoria. I have found some of my old dream journals and I’m surprised at what they mean to me … NOW … while being incomprehensible to me at the time I recorded the dream. I wish for us all to have nuggets of truth, pockets of peace in our dreams. ❤
Lillian was such a mentor to me. I'm so grateful for her teachings and showing me a world "outside of the box."
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Love all of that! If you’ve written about Lillian before and I’ve missed it, I’ll need to catch up. Appreciate this connecting thread between us, Pam! Thank you so much. 🥰❤️🥰
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I wrote this post here (https://roughwighting.net/2022/09/09/tea-for-two/) as fiction, but it’s about Lillian (true name Leezy, which is what she had me call her) and this explains a lot of who/how she was.
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Thank you so much for sharing! Yay! And Leezy…what a name. Xo! 🥰
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I’d want to see only the good in what’s ahead–nothing evil or scary.
A few years ago, I dreamed I got lost in the woods; it happened just before my second memoir was published. Enough said!
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Hahaha. I know, Marian. My recurrent dream is driving a car on a high hill that begins to coast downward, and the brakes don’t work. Don’t need to be a psychic to figure out THAT dream. ;–0
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Haha!
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I believe there are some with this gift, though I can’t say I’ve ever experienced anything more than intuition. I’ve never been to a fortune teller or psychic before. The beauty of each moment is the surprise that might happen today.
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Good point. I figure there’s a reason we can’t ‘see’ into the future the way we can remember the past. Whoever’s in charge thought it not a good idea. 🙂
I’ve been to a palm reader (the sister of one of my professors) and she was more psychic than palm reader, and to me, more intuitive than anything else. My take is that we can hone our intuition skills if we want to, and that could be quite helpful in our lives.
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My guess is you probably know my answer to this question. I’m trying to formulate it all into a book of sorts. Those dreams get us ready for things that may be too hard to deal with if not prepared to some degree. I agree that quantum physics can explain a lot and have studies that for may years to help me understand the rest of it. Sometimes it’s dreams that guide, sometimes it’s words in your ear or pictures in your mind. I take it when I get it but my daughter has learned I’m never wrong when those things come. I’ve learned to trust even the really “wake up screaming” dreams. Thanks for sharing this.
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Yes, you’re right, Marlene. 🙂 I knew you’d have a great response to my post. Quantum physics – isn’t that just matter and energy circling all within and outside of us? And then most certainly we can obtain knowledge/insight/answers if we pay attention to what the energy is saying to us, in whatever form. ❤
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Generally I don’t. And yet … When my dad found out he had cancer, I was overseas. Suddenly I had a terrible anxiety attack. I’d never had such a thing before. My parents didn’t tell me about the cancer for about six months. Off and on all the time he was sick, I had anxiety attacks. I was on a plane flying back to the US when he died. At that moment, I felt the anxiety disappear. When I arrived, I was told about his death.
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Wow, Nicki. We like to think that we don’t “see, dream, or feel” things that aren’t right in front of us. And yet, you show that a bond is not just physical. It’s metaphysical as well. Thank you for sharing this. We can keep saying we don’t believe in the ‘woo woo’ of things, and yet when we stop, listen, look inside ourselves, we could be surprised. ❤
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I do 🙂 . Both my cousin and I had dreams about Juniper Lake where our cabin is located being overrun with vacationers….big swan and island “floaties”, BBQ’s and large picnic tents a number of years ago. We also both had dreams / nightmares actually of the fire. Then just a year or so before the fire the trailhead beach was overrun with visitors on Labor Day weekend, just like in our dreams. So out of character for the remote area that is void of commercialism. The fire was also a “dream” actually nightmare we both experienced years before it happened. Coincidence?
Hugs to you Pam. Miss you and hope you are doing well.
Barbara
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You know me, Barbara. I don’t believe in “coincidences.” Both you and your cousin have proof that the future is foretold in a dream, or as others surmise, in our dreams we slip into a future timeline and ‘see’ what is to come. Thanks for sharing, my friend!
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Twice in my life I have dreamt of a death. Once was my Grandfather when I was 12; more recently my son – totally unexpectedly. We hear of dogs doing the same thing
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Inexplicable and yet there it is. I think if we “listen” to our dreams, we can learn a lot. One of my friends had a dream that her great-aunt died and visited my friend in that dream. She found out later that during that dreaming time, her great-aunt HAD died. The dream visitation helped my friend in her grief.
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Dreams are very much a part of life. I take them seriously, and don’t understand them in the beginning. But ‘working’ on them, maybe sketching it, pondering it, talking about them (in a dream group about once a month), helps bring it in focus. Dreams tell us what we need to know.
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I appreciate how well you explain dreams here! Or at least the little bit that we understand. Yes, I’ve taken dream workshops as well, and the fascinating part was how we listened to each others’ dreams and were able to interpret them in a way that the dreamer said, “aha!” And several have had psychic dreams or dreams with loved ones who have passed, which give them peace. Me? yes, I have a dream notebook and I journal on the ones that impact me the most.
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Though I’m as sensitive as a brick myself I do take a great interest in the work of psychics, the spirit world, other dimensions. And I’m aware that some people have the gift of clairvoyance and that, through dreams or otherwise, they can ‘see’ things that others can’t. I can’t say that my dreams have had any significance, odd though they can be. So much mystery out there.
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“Sensitive as a brick” – ha. Not true, as proven in your books that I read, and your blog posts. I’ve actually taken dream workshops and the best I’ve learned is that dreams are universal (as are the themes) and that they show how similar we all are to each other. And that yes, many dreams are explicitly inexplicable. 🙂 Happy dreaming!
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I have had a number of psychic experiences of precognition ~ knowing what I could not know . . . with absolute certainty.
So, sure. I believe.
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I am not surprised, Nancy. High five to a fellow Spirit Sister. ❤
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High Five!
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True story, Pam? I don’t think I’ve had a psychic dream, but I do believe that the world is far more interesting, complex, and mysterious than our puny little empirically-minded brains can understand. Just because we can’t perceive something and measure it, doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. To me, that would be a silly assumption. ❤ ❤ ❤
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This is a true story – all of it except Lillian’s name. I’ve written about her before. She was a huge influence in my life, although I’m not sure she knew it at the time. She does now (I know that, because she has visited me in my dreams from time to time.) Yes, I find it amusing that some human beings think we know it all, when we know so little. ❤
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❤ It sounds like a you had a wonderful relationship – meant to be.
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Most people can’t do these psychic things naturally. It appears that the subconscious does the work of sending and receiving. The barrier between the subconscious and conscious minds for free flow of information is too strong in most people so messages don’t get through. However, with meditation and practice to calm the chattering conscious ego, clairvoyance can certainly be done. The problem is that for most people it takes a lot of practice and it’s difficult to learn and easy to forget. A second problem is that to progress you need confirmation of what you saw. Few will confirm or even discuss. Many are at best skeptical and at worst hostile. All of that kills the ability quickly. And the incentive and encouragement to practice is lost. I had two times that what I saw was confirmed by the person involved. After that no one willing to talk. That ended both ability and practice.
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Thank you for your open and honest comment, Doug. Yes, I’ve been there also. People don’t want to hear my ‘woo woo’ experiences. When younger, I kept them to myself. When I was in my 40s I began to read some books that affirmed what I’d experienced – who knew others had also?? I began to trust my experiences. Not try to explain them, just trust them. And yes, still, not share them with too many people. But as you suggest, meditation and just plain stopping and BEing opens up to some fabulous unexplainables.
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Oo, I love the eerie feeling this piece conveys and the idea of psychic dreams. It is such a strange feeling to come from a dream that feels so real or to get that feeling of deja vu sometimes and wonder where it stems from. 💚
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So many unanswered questions when we wake from a dream that is SO REAL, yet the people in them are unknown. Are they real? From another place/time? Who knows, but it’s worth our while to surmise, and to learn from whatever lesson they’re teaching us in the dream. And if it’s a forecast of the future …. do we pay attention? Or let it go and let what is to be, to be. ❤
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I’m a believer. There is so much of our brain that appears to have no function. Why not this? My mind is wide open.
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I think those of us who are creatives KNOW that there is more than what the eye can see. And yes, I like the way you explain that our brain is still such a mystery to us – so much unexplored, much like the ocean.
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My dreams are too weird to be anything other than mumbo jumbo. But I have had a feeling of deja vu a couple of times in my life and don’t disbelieve that others may have a touch pf pyschic.
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Deja vu is rather unsettling, isn’t it? I know that scientists say it’s just our brain that has a little blip or something. Not sure I agree. Like you, I’m keeping my mind open on all things unexplained.
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I had a weird event in Prague when we lived there. We wanted to visit a Roman home site that had been discovered and revealed for tourists, and I took my husband there without benefit of a map, not even having read where it was.
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WOW!!! That is cool and yes, a little eerie. I’ve had dreams where I was walking the alleyways of Paris as if I knew exactly where I was going. I wished I could fly over and see if I could recreate the path I’d been on. Anway, who knows what your Prague experience means -that you knew where you were and how to get there? But it means something special!!
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A former life? I felt very at home in Prague.
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I’d guess that…
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Hi Pam, this is an interesting story and I even know the plane crash that inspired it. Do I believe in psychic dreams? I’ve never had one but that’s not to say others don’t. I’m open minded about such things.
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I believe that with an open mind, our mind can learn so much, seen and unseen. ❤
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I saw your post but we’ve had the grandkids full-time for two weeks! It was fun.
Well, this is such a commplicated issue, Pam! Chinese is known for palm reading . I briefly study about it and examined my right palm (left for male and right for female). According to the plam reading, a couple of palmar creases indicates that I have longivity but one line diverted from it indicates I might have a near death experience. The primary palmar creases were there when I was young. It would have caused anxiety to live with the “prediction.” I didn’t believe it and put the idea away. When I survived from cancer, I interpreted my palmar creases gave me an indication. Physiology would say the specific palmar creases patterns are influenced by genetics, ancestry, developmental factors, and even activity levels. I did notice my creases increased compared to my younger days. As far as dreams, I don’t have the “gift” to dream about the future.
As a believer, I believe certain individuals in the past were called to be prophets.
I don’t know too much about the modern days, though. Can people see the future or do they have stronger intuition to tune in to what might happen? In God, there’s no beginning and an end. He sees thousand years as one day and one day as thousand years. If man is made in his image and has God-like capacity, man may be able to see the universe as a continuum. It’s beyond our brain capacity to perceive the universe as a continuum and not limited to the time.
It’s interesting that you recorded your dreams and tried to find the meanings of them.
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Thank you for such an in-depth post on your own experiences with palm reading and interpretation and your explanation of those who can see into the future. Maybe. Yes I was thinking about what you went through with your cancer and how you survived it. I would have no doubt that your palms would register this huge part of your life. I have always thought of Palm reading as a type of psychic intelligence.
And I do believe that there have been prophets throughout humankind’s history. Who knows what is intuition and what is psychic experiences? And are they the same thing? Isn’t it a fun being a human with all these mysteries? 😇
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It’s always fun reading your relatable stories, Pam!
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I believe in spirits and have experienced them, but never events.
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Events seem to be a whole other level. I’m with you. I’ve experienced spirits or the energy of spirits and guides and I am grateful for those connections. Hi-five to you and me. 😇
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Lucky you! And yes to our hi-fives.
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Interesting story, Pam. I do believe in psychic dreams. I also enjoy dream interpretation. I think our subconscious minds reveal themselves in our dreams and it’s fun to envision another aspect of our selves.
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It’s lots of fun to interpret our dreams. I just wish I was better at it! Thanks so much Carol. 💙
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I loved the story Pam. And I absolutely believe in psychic dreams, astro-planing and premonitions. 🥰
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I knew you’d relate to this story! You and I are on the same page. 💖
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Absolute! 💜
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Dreams can be so wild, sometimes just random and other times way too spot-on to ignore.
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And the hardest thing is not knowing if it’s just a random dream or if it’s spot on! 😬
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Why not believe? Most of the time, my dreams are pleasant. Being a physicist , why not? When I was a young child in Germany, a woman told me that I would move far away, and I did. Gerlinde
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Great question- why NOT believe? We humans know so little about our innate abilities. 😇
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There is a typo in my comment. I am not a physicist, whatever that is. I think I meant to write that I am a realist .
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I think physicists believe they are realists, but I believe they believe in parallel universes too. So. Reality is what you believe?
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